Events

You don’t have to carry this alone anymore. Many men carry the impact of sexual trauma in silence — sometimes for decades. It often shows up as anger, addiction or numbing, relationship struggles, isolation, difficulty trusting, and shame that was never theirs to carry. Most men were never given a space to speak about what happened without discomfort, judgment, or pressure to “just move on.” Men Healing From Sexual Trauma is a steady, respectful space where men can come out of isolation and begin processing — at their own pace and in their own way. This is a place where you can speak honestly without being defined by what happened, process quietly or out loud, and rebuild a sense of steadiness and self-trust. Guided Reiki and grounding practices help support the nervous system and release stored tension safely. Led by Jeff Perry, who has walked his own path of healing and recovery, this group is grounded, confidential, and deeply respectful of each man’s experience. This is not therapy. This is not a place for graphic retelling. This is not about reliving trauma. It is a place to bring what has been carried alone into a space of quiet understanding and strength. You choose what you share. You choose your pace. Listening is always enough. Healing meets you exactly where you are.   Privacy & Safety Privacy and personal agency are central to this circle. Participants may: attend under their own name or a pseudonym keep cameras off listen without speaking step away at any time All participants agree to maintain confidentiality, practice respectful listening, avoid graphic descriptions, and never pressure others to share. This circle is designed to feel steady, contained, and emotionally safe.   75-Minute Circle Format Structured but relaxed. Real conversation without pressure. 1. Arrival & Grounding (5–7 minutes) The circle begins with a welcome and gentle orientation, including a confidentiality reminder. Participants are invited to share if they wish or simply listen. A brief grounding exercise helps settle the nervous system. The tone is calm, direct, and respectful. 2. Optional Check-In (15–20 minutes) This is a prompt-based sharing period, entirely optional. Examples of prompts include: “What has been sitting heavy lately?” “Where are you feeling tension or pressure?” and “What helps you feel steady right now?” Participants may speak, pass, use chat, or listen quietly. No one is required to disclose personal history. 3. Theme Conversation (15 minutes) Jeff leads a short, grounded discussion focused on understanding the impact of trauma without reliving events. The conversation helps men separate their identity from what happened, build steadiness and self-respect, and reclaim personal strength. This portion is practical, respectful, and not clinical or heavy. 4. Reiki & Nervous System Support (20 minutes) A gentle guided experience supports releasing stored tension, calming the body, restoring a sense of internal safety, and grounding. The session includes quiet restoration, and participants may simply rest and receive. No belief in Reiki is required. 5. Reflection & Optional Closing Share (15–18 minutes) Participants may share reflections, speak about what helped, or remain silent and listen. Many find this portion feels easier once the body has settled.   This event is normally $20 USD/session, but is being offered free on April 28th as a special introductory offer.  

Honouring where we came from. Becoming more than we were taught. Many men today find themselves standing between generations. They respect the men who raised them — fathers, grandfathers, mentors — yet know that some of the models they inherited no longer fully fit the life they want to live. Most were taught to push through, provide, stay quiet about emotions, handle things alone, and measure their worth through work and endurance. These lessons built strength. But many men now want more than endurance — they want presence, connection, and clarity about the kind of man they are becoming. Next Generation Men is a grounded space for men who want to grow beyond old limitations without rejecting where they came from. This is not about blaming previous generations. It is about building on their strengths and evolving forward with intention. Together, we explore what it means to live as a steady, grounded man in the modern world — how to honour the past while growing beyond it, develop emotional strength without losing masculinity, and cultivate purpose that comes from clarity rather than pressure. This is not therapy. Not political. Not anti-masculinity. It is a place for thoughtful men who want to live with strength, clarity, and presence — and who understand that growth does not weaken a man, but makes him more complete. Come as you are. Speak if you wish. Listen if that’s what you need.   75-Minute Circle Format Structured but relaxed. Real conversation without pressure. 1. Arrival & Grounding (5–7 minutes) The circle begins with a welcome, introduction to the evening’s theme, and a gentle grounding exercise to help everyone arrive fully. Participants are reminded that there is no pressure to share. 2. Real Conversation (25 minutes) A guided discussion explores the theme in depth. Prompts might include: “What kind of man were you taught to be?” “Which lessons still fit — and which don’t?” or “Where are you trying to grow right now?” Participants are free to speak, pass, use chat, or simply listen. The focus is on honest reflection and respectful dialogue. 3. Topic Exploration (15 minutes) Jeff offers grounded reflections and practical insights connected to the theme. He may touch on emotional steadiness, generational patterns, relationships, identity, purpose, or presence. This is not a lecture, but thoughtful guidance to help men apply insight to their own lives. 4. Reiki & Presence Practice (20 minutes) This portion is framed as a nervous system reset, helping men release pressure, ground into the body, and reconnect with clarity and steadiness. The practice includes gentle breathwork, body awareness, Reiki support, and quiet integration. No belief in Reiki is required — participants may simply rest and receive. 5. Closing Reflection (8–10 minutes) The circle concludes with an optional reflection. Men may share an insight, name an intention, or simply listen. This gentle closing helps carry the work of the circle into the week.   This event is normally $20 USD/session, but is being offered free on May 5th as a special introductory offer.